Networking conversational silences

Networking can feel fraught and difficult.  Many people talk about feeling the need to be on the entire time, and like they ought to be polished and poised all the way through.  But that’s a lot of pressure to put on yourself!  Here are some tips for navigating those ebbs and flows of networking conversations.

Networking: The Long Game

I often work with people who tell me all about their efforts to connect with hiring managers and other key decision makers when they’re applying for a job.  Unfortunately, this effort is largely a waste time and energy because a) hiring managers aren’t willing or able to pay attention to every person who reaches out…

Don’t Be a LinkedIn Ghost: Hauntingly Good Tips to Update Your Profile

Tomorrow will bring its annual round of little ghouls, witches and goblins to your door for treats, but don’t let that scare you away from updating that old LinkedIn profile!   I like to link recurring but infrequent tasks to memorable occasions—so if you’re decorating for Halloween, think about redecorating your profile, too!  Check in…

Networking: What Not to Do

  I frequently hear people complain that they’re trying to network but the hiring managers they reach out to never respond.  Or that none of the people they’ve reached out to have any job openings.  Or that they don’t know anyone in the field they want.  Are you guilty of these?   The main misconception…

Top Tips: How to Network

  Now that we’ve covered why it’s important to network, let’s dig in on how to do it.   The most obvious starting point is networking events.  These can be good if you enjoy socializing, but they can also be daunting.  If you choose to do some of this sort of networking, prepare for the…